You can change up the frequency, going from slower, bigger hits to faster, smaller hits, but always remember to stay on beat. When put together, this can help the giver and receiver achieve the same headspace simultaneously. A reliable rhythm will help the giver maintain control over the spankings, and it'll let the receiver know when to expect a hit. You can also use spanking as a way of sensitizing the skin, making even the gentlest of touches even more potent.įor this video, we’ll focus on rhythm, tools and sensitized skin.Ī good rhythm is a great way to get both the giver and receiver on the same wavelength. A lot of first-timers assume that spanking is all about administering pain, but when done right, you can use a small amount of bite to release endorphins and adrenaline into the receiver's body. Spanking is an easy and accessible way of introducing a little bit of kink into your play.
Watch as Jeremy Feist and Windom Gold demonstrate the art of spanking.
